As of 3/4, 1 ticket remaining.
We are very excited about our upcoming Florida How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday, March 4th, 2023, in Ocala, FL from 9 am –
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Ocala How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Class, October 2022
As of 10/9, 14 tickets remaining.
We are very excited about our upcoming Ocala How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Class on October 9th, 16th, and 23rd, from 6 pm – 7:30 pm. Author,
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Ohio Family Emphasis Conference, April 24th-27th, 2022
We are excited about our upcoming Ohio Family Emphasis Conference from April 24-27th, 2022, in Ashtabula, OH, featuring author, speaker, and marriage coach, Dr. Raymond Force.
Location, Times, and Topics
Our Ohio Family Emphasis Conference will be held from Sunday,
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Paperback Book – How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting With One Another
For a woman, marriage is a bridge upon which she desires to safely walk. If that bridge has ever fallen through, she thinks twice before bearing all her weight on it again.
In How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting with One Another, Dr.
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Marriage Emphasis Sunday, November 8th, Edenton, NC
We are very excited about our upcoming How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Emphasis Sunday on Sunday, November 8th, 2020, in Edenton, NC. Author, speaker, and marriage coach, Dr. Raymond Force, will be teaching couples how to fight for their marriage without fighting with one another using our proven 2-step process.
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Kentucky How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference
As of 9/11, 5 tickets remaining.
We are very excited about our upcoming Kentucky How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday, September 12th, 2020, in Hopkinsville, KY, from 9 am – 1 pm.
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How to Survive Too Much Time Together
Many of the controls that we are accustomed to have changed. We are not waking up at the same time, our jobs are in question, our children’s sporting events have been canceled, there are few places of worship to attend, and the list goes on. As a result,
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How to Spot Those Dead End Conversations
As a young married man, I was horrible about pushing an argument with my wife until she was totally shut down and I was exceptionally frustrated. Unfortunately, we had our share of what I call dead-end arguments that accomplished absolutely nothing.
It took me a while as a husband to start to learn the signs of a dead-end argument.
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Consumers Consume Themselves
Lately, I have been analyzing my own marriage. I have been looking at key components that have enabled us to connect at a very high level for the last 26 years.
One of those components involves a spirit of learning that has been present at almost every stage of our marriage.
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Couch Time for Couples
Do you and your spouse have time together every day or at least 5-6 days a week? For my wife and I, that time is between 9-11 pm. We are not always talking, but we are at least together reading, vegging, watching something wholesome, or sometimes just sleeping.
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Marriage Bundle
By far, our most comprehensive resource for the couple in need is our Marriage Bundle:
Our Marriage Bundle includes the following:
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- Paperback version of our marriage book, How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting with One Another,
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Missouri / Iowa How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference
As of 8/19, 14 tickets remaining.
We are very excited about our upcoming Missouri / Iowa How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday, August 22nd, 2020, in Unionville, MO, from 9 am –
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Why I Love the Next 40 Days
We are exactly 40 days away from our Kissimmee How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference in sunny Kissimmee, FL, and Dr. Force is excited. Let me tell you why:
1. During the next 40 days, we will see couples signing up from all over the country.
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How to Speak Womanese
During our marriage conferences, I have a section where women almost violently start shaking their heads up and down in agreement with our content. I call the segment Speaking Womanese.
I have found by their own admission that most women would rather feel emotionally safe than anything else in the relationship.
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Kissimmee How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference
As of October 18th,
43 Tickets Remaining.
We are very excited about our upcoming Kissimmee How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday, October 19th, 2019, in Kissimmee, FL. Author, speaker, and marriage coach,
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It’s Going to be a Great Night in Gainesville
It is sometimes hard to describe what takes place at our marriage events and conferences. But, most leave with a sense of hope and encouragement about their marriage that is hard to put a finger on.
Our format is very simple. There are no skits or exercises.
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Some of Y’all are Killing Me
I admit. I am a command man.
There are very few things that I am a part of where I am not in charge or, very soon, asked to help in a big way.
If there are 30 people in a room, I have noticed that I have a way of helping to determine the topic of conversation or the mood of the room.
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A Small Change that Makes a Big Difference in Your Marriage
I am actually surprised at how the smallest of changes can have a dramatic affect upon our lives and relationships.
It is so common to have couples come to me that are heartbroken and without hope. They are convinced that they have more issues than they really have,
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Why Our 2-Step Process Works
Over the years of helping couples in need, I have found that husbands and wives in a troubled marriage desperately need what I call “handle bars of information”. That is, they are typically looking for very specific instructions on what to do and when to do it as they are often drowning in their feelings of discouragement and despair.
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A Marriage Made in Heaven is Pretty Earthly
I sometimes laugh when couples I coach think I am “hitting home” in a session as if I have some type of extrasensory perception or I have been a fly on the wall in their marriage secretly recording their conversations. The truth of the matter is that Corinthians tells us that “there hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man”.
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Some Things You Should Know About Our Gainesville Marriage Conference
There are some things you should know about our Gainesville How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on June 21st:
1. It’s short and sweet for a reason. 6-8:45 pm. Anyone can swing that! Plus, I loathe information overload.
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Gainesville How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference
This event is Sold Out. A waiting list is available on the registration page.
We are very excited about our upcoming Gainesville How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Friday, June 21st,
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How is Your Heart?
It is more than vital for couples to realize that in order to obtain the right answers, they must ask the right questions. Instead of asking, how will we ever fix our marriage, maybe there is a better question. Could it be that your marriage is limping along because both participants have unhealthy hearts?
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What is Your Back Story?
It was over 20 years after their deception when the brothers of Joseph stood before him. They were in hot water, at least, it seemed to them.
In Genesis, we have their almost out of place reaction as they were interrogated by Joseph, the one they had cast into a pit and sold as a slave years earlier.
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Why Our Marriage Events Are Selling Out
Unfortunately, it is a desperate day in which we live. Our society is akin to Isaiah’s audience in the Old Testament.
Isaiah wrote in his first chapter:
“Ah sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, a seed of evildoers, children that are corrupters: they have forsaken the Lord,
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The Tired Wife
Most wives in a troubled marriage are not so much unwilling, but tired. In fact, when counseling couples, I often make this distinction early in the process, and I find that it has a way of releasing the tired spouse from feeling condemnation. It also gives hope to the other where previously there was but little.…
Columbus How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference
This event is Sold Out.
We are very excited about our upcoming Columbus How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday, March 23rd, in Columbus, Ohio. Author,
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Too Much at Stake to Love?
The reason why some are unable to love, forgive, and take risk in a relationship is simple: they have too much at stake.
Love takes risk, but without the safety net and sense that God has our back and holds our future, many will be unable to sacrifice what they want for the needs of others.
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4 Hours That Could Save Your Marriage
It’s hard to believe we are just 10 days from our Orlando How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday, November 3rd, in Orlando, FL. We are so excited, and there are only about 33 tickets remaining. Preregistration is required.
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Our Most Awesomest Resource Ever
Many of you are very aware of our story. A few years ago, we lost our sweet Grace Evangeline in a very difficult car accident.
Since then, the tears shed and the lessons learned have been innumerable. However, as a husband and wife, we are doing our best to take the chunks of coal life throws our way and make diamonds of them.
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Less Than 40 Days Until Our Orlando Marriage Conference
Wow! Less than 40 days until our Orlando How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday, November 3rd, in sunny Orlando, FL.
Here are a few things you should know about our conferences:
- Our conferences last 4 hours max.
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Preparing for Battle on November 3rd in Orlando
Preparing for some awesome battle on November 3rd in Orlando, FL, at our Orlando How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference. Here are a few reasons why I love our conferences:
- I look at teaching on marriage as war.
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Feminism Pleads Not Guilty
I keep hearing this phrase that feminism killed masculinity. That’s a bunch of crock. Feminism did not kill masculinity. It merely replaced it.
When men replaced the study with the man cave, they gave up the foundation of their manhood. The scriptures tell us that wisdom is better than strength,
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Orlando How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference
Sold Out – A Waiting List is Available at the Registration Page.
We are very excited about our upcoming Orlando How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage Conference on Saturday,
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Marriage, the Front-Line of Evangelism
A few years back, I literally thought that I may be forsaking my call as a preacher of the gospel to give so much time toward the subject of marriage. However, as the years have unfolded, I have found that our team is on the front-line of evangelism.
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Your Marriage May Be Getting Bad Advertisement
If you are not content before you wake up in the morning, you will not be content in your marriage.
Let’s face it. Many marriages get bad advertisement. The problem is not so much with compatibility as much as the health of the individuals involved.
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True or False? Happy Wife, Happy Life
Happy wife, happy life. You may be surprised at the number of men that loathe this little statement. However, I would like to pull a little rank on some and speak from my experience as to why this statement is so vital.
Hitting Home has been helping couples since 2002.
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45 Going On 17?
In working with couples, I am finding a number of adults between the ages of 35 and 45 that are reverting back to when they were about 17. This is often evidenced by any or all of the following:
- Frivolous spending
- A sudden change in their taste for music
- A rise in consumption of sensual entertainment
- A looseness in parenting
- Reconnecting with old high school friends via social media especially of the opposite sex
- Vicariously living through their children by their heavy encouragement to date and giddy conversations about their boyfriends / girlfriends
- A constant type-casting of themselves as a victim especially of the marriage
- A sudden change in dress and style of clothing
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Three Years Ago This Month, Everything Changed For My Family
Three years ago today, everything changed. We were riding down the road, minding our own business, and playing by the rules.
Two days before that, I spoke on marriage in Williamston, NC, and my little Grace sang He Looked Beyond My Faults And Saw My Need.
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Your Wife’s On and Off Switch
Generally speaking, when it comes to physical intimacy, women seem to have this on and off switch that can be in the on position one day, but in the off position on another. For men, it seems to be a little different as their switch tends to be stuck in the on position.
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North Georgia – Marriage / Singles Conference
This Event is Sold Out. A Waiting List is Available on the Registration Page.
We are very excited about our upcoming North Georgia How to Fight For Your Marriage – Marriage/Singles Conference on Friday,
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Embrace The Struggle
One would think that with all of the information that we have at our fingertips, our society would be the most advanced society that ever lived as far wisdom is concerned. However, I believe we actually see a fulfillment of prophecy right before our eyes in that many are “ever learning,
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Philadelphia Marriage Class – July 28th, 2018
Waiting List Available on Registration Page – Sold Out
On July 28th, 2018, we are hosting a How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Class in Philadelphia, PA. This particular class will be a smaller interactive class for couples in need.
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Marriage Problems Speak Volumes
At our last marriage conference in Missouri, I spent a good amount of time talking about the rage that is in the average person’s heart in our day. The reason for this is simple: the further away a society runs from the reality of the cross, the more rage they carry in their souls.
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After 25 Years Of Marriage – This Is What We Have Learned
This December, my wife and I will have been married for 25 years. I am more than thankful for the lessons we have learned along the way.
A Few Lessons We Have Learned
Though we are certainly not the Corn-flake couple,
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Healthy Individuals Make Up A Healthy Marriage
It is one thing to have a bad problem. It is another to come up with a bad solution to that problem. Unfortunately, this is what is occurring as singles see marrieds struggle.
Many singles are developing a disdain for the institution of marriage while others are vowing to stay away from marriage altogether.
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Dallas, TX How to Fight for Your Marriage – Marriage Conference, August 4th, 2018
Sold Out – Waiting List Available on the Registration Page
We are very excited about our upcoming How to Fight For Your Marriage – Dallas Marriage Conference on Saturday, August 4th, 2018 in Dallas,
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Have You Been There And Done That With God?
During the first session of our marriage conferences, we take the time to discuss the importance of the Father’s presence in each of our lives. In fact, I often say that without an eternal view of our lives and marriages, our advice simply serves as five smooth stones placed in the wrong sling of selfishness and humanism.
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Does Your Marriage Suffer From Emotional Amnesia?
Does your marriage suffer from what I call emotional amnesia? That is, when a problem arises, do you or your spouse act as if you have never learned good conflict resolution skills? Do you forget about the emotional heart strings that have been tied throughout the years and give place to your raw emotions?
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This Is What It Looks Like
It seems that there is a thread that runs through much of my coaching, teaching, and writing as I teach individuals and couples about the ways of God in relation to marriage and relationships. This thread can be summed up in this little phrase: this is what it looks like.
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