How to Treat Your Wife, Husband, Marriage Problems, Second Rate

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Christian Advice on How to Treat Your Wife

 

Trying to figure out how to treat your wife?  In my opinion, the how on what to do does not come natural to most men.  Here is a portion from Dr. Raymond Force’s book on  marriage.

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Queen of Sheba

 

Upon first meeting their wives, men are superb about treating them like the Queen of Sheba. At this juncture, women feel they are in their rightful place as they have a sense of feeling valued, protected, and secure about the relationship. Be that as it may, through time and circumstance, some of these very same women slowly become dethroned from the royal palace only to be replaced by their husband’s job, career, business endeavors, hobbies, family members, friends, or even feelings of boredom and familiarity. As a result, disillusionment follows and they are tempted to act in a way that is less than becoming.

 

Simple Solutions for Complex Marriage Problems

 

For the average husband, the solution to what seems to be very complex marriage problems is often simple and involves putting his wife back in her rightful place in the royal palace. If there is a failure in this area, the little girl within her that longs to feel beautiful and cherished will be tempted to deem her herself as second rate. Outwardly she will look pretty. But, inwardly she will fight against the mixed messages that resound from her husband’s actions and attitude toward her that have a way of demeaning her view of herself.

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Deep down, wives want to know that their husband’s business endeavors and hobbies are not his mistress. It is not so much they she desires to win out among these as much as she despises the very thought of even competing against them.

 

Now for Love’s Sake

 

If you are looking for answers on how to treat your wife, then you should do now for love’s sake what you did before marriage for self’s sake. In other words, when couples first exchange their I love you’s, they really mean I love what you are doing for me or I love the way you make me feel. Now, despite your potentially despondent feelings, I encourage men to serve their wives as they did when they first met, yet with a different motive.

I am a firm believer that if some men treated their wives on the first, second, and third date or courtship event as they have in the last few years or months, there would never have been a fourth, fifth, and sixth date. Interestingly enough, without marriage speakers, counselors, and marriage conferences, men know how to gain the heart of their wives before marriage. Now, some play dumb while others choose ignorance. I say if you knew how to get her to sign on the dotted line to begin with, for the most part, you can probably figure out how to keep her around.

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5 comments on “How to Treat Your Wife, Husband, Marriage Problems, Second Rate
  1. Michelle says:

    I have done everything I can to try to fix are marriage to the point were I let him do what he wants hoping he its just a because hes going through stuff himself but more i do more I feel iam being used so I had to come to an exceptence hes no long in love with me ..and stop putting my heart into it I have 6 kids so they need to come first …

  2. KGM says:

    If my husband treated me early in dating and even our marriage like he does now, I would have left then. 49 years, porn and flirts more with other women than me. I stay for my kids sake but each day gets harder and more clear I can’t do it any longer.

  3. Leigh says:

    I supported him to follow his dreams and start a business, but once he did, it was the end of our marriage. As I complained I felt he didn’t have time for me anymore, he began to fill in the very bit of extra time he had with hobbies and friends and then I was even more left behind. I have been praying and standing for my marriage for so long that I have given up hope and we are now in the process of divorce. I gave him the the ultimatum of either we fix this or separate because I cannot go on being this lonely for my spouse anymore.

  4. Amanda says:

    This article is excellent and biblical. When God calls one of the seven churches to repentance he tells them to do the things they did at the beginning and repent. Unfortunately simple is sometimes the hardest for ppl to understand.

  5. sherry says:

    All of this is going on in my marriage, and I find myself relieved when I get home fr poo m work snd he is not there. I want my own space, where I can make it my own. Im tired if living for someone elses agenda and needs and not fulfilling my own#

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