Blog Archives

Spouse Will Not End an Affair

 

What to do When a Spouse will Not End an Affair

 

What is a husband or wife to do when their spouse will not end an affair? In my experience as a pastoral care counselor and a life coach, I have seen a variety of reactions.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Trouble Getting Over an Affair?

 

Having Trouble Getting Over an Affair?

 

If you are having trouble getting over an affair, you already know that there are a number of obstacles to overcome. These obstacles include fear, regaining trust, dealing with mental images, the marriage bed, and unforgiveness. Let me take a few moments to deal with the issue of overcoming fear and regaining trust after an affair.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Forgiving Yourself After an Affair, Psalm 51, David

 

How to Forgive Yourself After an Affair

 

It’s one thing to be forgiven by your spouse after an affair, but how does one handle it when they are finding it difficult to forgive themselves after an affair. Here is a major scriptural point to consider.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Christian Help after an Affair

 

Desiring Christian Help after an Affair?

 

Christian help after an affair is available from a variety of sources. These sources may include:

 

The Bible

Your church

Local Christian marriage ministries

Christian based resources

Close Christian friends

Family members

Marriage counselors and therapists

 

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Will My Marriage Survive an Affair?

 

Will My Marriage Survive an Affair?

 

After adultery has taken place, many ask the question, “Will my marriage survive an affair?” Let me give you some insight as to why your marriage can survive an affair.

will my marriage survive an affair
 

Because Others Have Done It

 

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


How to Move Forward after an Affair

 

Biblical Help on How to Move Forward After an Affair

 

There is a reason why God said, “Thou shalt not commit adultery”. (Exodus 20:14) It is not only disobedience to His Word, but it hurts. In fact, it hurts a lot. I hope this little article on how to move forward after an affair will help some to gain a little more perspective on how to move forward from the ravaging effects of infidelity.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Why Did My Spouse have an Affair?

 

Why Did My Spouse Have an Affair?

 

This is a very common question for spouses to ask after their husband or wife commits adultery. Here are some very important points to consider if you are one of those consumed with trying to figure out why your spouse had an affair.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Signs of a Cheating Spouse, Phone, Call Records, Distant

 

Signs of a Cheating Spouse

 

What are the signs of a cheating spouse? Is it possible to tell if your spouse is having an affair or an adulterous relationship?

signs of a cheating spouse
 

Some Signs of a Cheating Spouse

 

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Feelings for Another Person, Other than Spouse, Affair

 

Feelings for Another Person Outside of the Marriage

 

Having feelings for another person other than your spouse is definitely out of bounds according to the scriptures. Here are some helpful thoughts on the matter:

feelings for another person
 

True Love

 

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Emotional Affair – Is it adultery?, Matthew 5:27-28, Proverbs 6

 

Emotional Affair – Is it Adultery?

 

Many wonder if an emotional affair is actually adultery. I believe so for the following reasons:

emotional affair - is it adultery
 

Jesus Words in Matthew 5:27-28

 

I do not believe it would be a stretch to apply the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:27-28 to this issue.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Surviving an Affair – What You Need to Know

 

Surviving an Affair – What You Need to Know

 

Spouses that are working at surviving an affair are often in a tail spin during the first few weeks and months. It is important for husbands and wives trying to survive the devastating effects of an affair to know the following:

surviving an affair
 

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Intimacy after an Affair, How Soon, When

 

Intimacy after an affair

 

I am often asked when couples should attempt to enjoy intimacy after an affair. Here is my typical answer:

intimacy after an affair

STD’s

 

Before considering intimacy after an affair the subject of STD’s should be addressed.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Alcohol and Adultery, I Peter 5:8

 

Alcohol and Adultery – Is there a Connection?

 

Being a pastoral care counselor and a marriage coach, I have assisted multitudes of couples through the devastating effects of adultery. Though alcohol is not always involved in adulterous relationships, it should be noted that I have had many a man and woman tell me that alcohol contributed to their lack of ability to resist temptation.

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Forgiving Your Spouse After an Affair, Adultery

 

Trouble with Forgiving Your Spouse After an Affair?

 

If you are working through forgiving your spouse after an affair, it is important that a few things be present from the very beginning. In fact, I have found that if the following traits are not present,

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


After an Affair, Adultery, Recover

 

How to Recover After an Affair

 

Without a doubt, if a couple is going to stay together after an affair, they are going to take a trip down a very bumpy road. This is because adultery is the most grievous sin that one can commit against a marriage,

Read more ›

Posted in Recovering After an Affair


Marriage and Relationship Coaching

Over the Phone
Call Us at 1-888-642-3036
Talk Now - Live 24/7 Help
How do Good Relationships Go Bad?
Receive Dr. Force's E-Course on Marriage

Enter Your Email to Receive Your E-Course

Order our Christian Marriage Book
How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting with One Another

 

  • Learn our 2-step Process to Solving Marriage Issues
  • Use for your next Bible study
  • A Biblical Yet Refreshing Approach

 

 

Available on Amazon

Available on Amazon

Opt In Image
Host one of Our Marriage Events
  • Find out How Your Church can Host one of our Marriage Events

Marriage and Relationship Coaching

Over the Phone
Call Us at 1-888-642-3036
Talk Now - Live 24/7 Help
Available on Amazon

Available on Amazon

Order our Christian Marriage Book
How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting with One Another

 

  • Learn our 2-step Process to Solving Marriage Issues
  • Use for your next Bible study
  • A Biblical Yet Refreshing Approach

 

 

Know the Top Mistake Men Make in a Fight?
Receive Dr. Force's E-Course on Marriage

Enter Your Email to Receive Your E-Course