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Once Her Spirit is Wounded . . .

It was a hard lesson to learn as a young man, but once my wife’s spirit was wounded, all the words and logic in the world would fail in making things better in the immediate. Only time, action, and a genuine change in my attitude would prove to help.

once her spirit is wounded

It seems that one of the most important lessons I teach men is that there is often a price to pay for losing their cool,

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I Can’t Take it Anymore

 

It is more than common for men to read an excerpt from my marriage book or one of our blog posts and reply with statements as such:

 

“Just remember, It goes both ways.”

“Why are most of the marriage books about the men?”

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The Mature or Not So Mature Spouse

 

Are You a Mature or Not So Mature Spouse?

 

Most of my coaching involves encouraging people to do what their parents should have taught them growing up. Whether the need is to exhibit more self control, show contentment, be thankful, or to love unconditionally,

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Why Men are Mad, Ephesians 5:24 and Proverbs 11:17

 

I am finding an increasing amount of men that are just plain mad. They are mad about their marriage, the treatment they receive from their wives, and what they view to be an uneven playing field when it comes to marriage.

Below are few reasons why I believe this to be occurring.

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How Can a Husband Honor His Wife, I Peter 3:7

 

I Peter 3:7 teaches that husbands are to honor their wives. What does this mean? How can a husband put this into practice? What are some practical ways that a husband can honor his wife? Here are a few pointers from Dr. Raymond Force, author of How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting with One Another.

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Is it Always the Man’s Fault in a Marriage?

 

Wondering, “Is it Always the Man’s Fault in a Marriage?”

 

I often receive comments from men that ask, “Is it always the man’s fault in a marriage?”, “Why is it always the husbands fault?”, “Why do books always seem to put the blame on the man?”,

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Are You Married to a Man or a Boy?

 

When providing marriage help for men, I am often forced to point out that many men are simply little boys in the bodies of men. That is, mentally, emotionally, and, especially, spiritually, many men have failed to grow up.

Unfortunately, very few boys seem to be truly making it to manhood.

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Ephesians 5:25, Husbands Love Your Wives

 

Ephesians 5:25 – Husbands Love Your Wives

 

Many couples have issues because their feelings of hopelessness, apathy, hurt, and anger have been their marriage counselor, guide, and even the god of their marriage (Philippians 3:19 and Romans 6:16). Because they feel negative, they feel they have a right to act negative.

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Upset Wife

 

Feel Like You are Living with an Upset Wife?

 

If as a husband you feel like you are always dealing with an upset wife, you may need to consider your role in the matter. This is one of my favorite little illustrations to use for husband learning to help their constantly upset wife.

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A Husband has 1 of 3 Choices

 

In chapter 8 of our marriage book, How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting with One Another, I discuss the 3 choices that husbands have when faced with difficulties in a marriage. Here’s a little food for thought from Dr. Raymond Force,

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Fix Your Marriage, Meekness, Unconditional Love, Kindness

 

How to Fix Your Marriage

 

To fix your marriage, you sometimes have to appear to lose before winning. The Bible has a word for this. It is called meekness.

 

Must I be Henpecked to Fix My Marriage?

 

Some men may feel that I am encouraging them to be what some would deem to be hen-pecked in order to fix their marriage.

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You’re Wife, The Standard Of Beauty

 

It must be a difficult day to be a woman in that TV, magazines, and billboards are bombarding the minds of women and men alike with what is deemed to be beautiful. In my opinion, this has caused a great deal of insecurity in many women, and it has cause many not to feel beautiful.

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Softening the Ground of Her Heart

 

Struggling with moving beyond those emotionally-charged conversations with your spouse? Here’s a little sage advice from Dr. Raymond Force, author of How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting With One Another.

 

The Emotional Mud Pit

 

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How to Love Your Wife, Family, Pastor, Ephesians

 

Learning How to Love Your Wife

 

Looking for answers on how to love your wife? Learn about our 2-step process to picking up the broken pieces of your marriage and putting them back together again. Here is a portion of the first step for men in a troubled marriage.

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How to Treat Your Wife, Husband, Marriage Problems, Second Rate

 

Christian Advice on How to Treat Your Wife

 

Trying to figure out how to treat your wife?  In my opinion, the how on what to do does not come natural to most men.  Here is a portion from Dr. Raymond Force’s book on  marriage.

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Wife Training??

 

Living with an angry or frustrated wife?  Rather than simply blaming her, a husband will do well to see how he may have contributed to the problem.  Take a look at this excerpt from our marriage book, How to Fight for Your Marriage Without Fighting with One Another.

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Bad First Year of Marriage, Christian Advice

 

Why I Had a Bad First Year of Marriage

 

In many ways, I had a bad first year of marriage.  My wife was like a wilted flower, and I had sucked the life right out of her through my temper tantrums, late night lectures,

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